Holding unto the past happens to be one of the ways of refraining one’s progress in life
some past life event might hurt naturally but when it’s constantly being brought back to the surface it feels like a wound trying to heal but isnt given enough space to due to constant re-opening or scrubbing.
many times the reason why people are unable to see beyond where they are is due to the fact that they still hold unto the life they’ve lived
the first step to seeing changes in life and moving on from something is becoming that change you expect to see.
The more you dwell on the past, the more difficult it feels to let go of it, some people have gotten to the point of accepting there is no way to redemption believing they’ve gone too far to just let go of a kind of life or past, and even before being crucified outwardly, they already did that to themselves inwardly. and any torment that comes from within doesn’t in anyway create room for peace.
come to think of it how can you forgive others if you can’t even forgive yourself ?
a lot of people commits suicide constantly due to lack of peace within and some of the root cause is the inability to endure the inner turmoil because the mind is like a wide screen that’s positioned in front of you and can be carried anywhere, anytime, anyday even the most tiniest room, as long as you can fit in.
Dont let the past hunt you for too long
BEST PRACTICE ON HOW TO LET GO OF THE PAST
1.Build new connections: being associated with new circle sometimes gives a feeling of a refreshning start and rooms for adjustment can be created, retaining old company can hold one back to old life and patterns. For instance a flash drive that got corrupted doesn’t necessarily needs to be dumped but can be formatted to come back fresh, this doesn’t necessarily mean blocking access to everyone you’ve once related with in the past, but creating boundaries would make a whole lot of difference
2.Try out new hobbies: There are alot to explore that can cause our mind not to focus on those things of the past, things like going to the gym, playing football, writing out new plans to execute and a lot more
3.Building a relationship with God: Anyone who has truly experienced God’s love and mercy can testify to the deep peace that follows, no matter the circumstances they face. There is often a voice that tries to pull us back into guilt and shame over our past, but building our trust in God gives us a confidence that no one in this world can offer..
if you want to achieve big in life letting go of the past and setting a template for a new beginning is the best to achieve that
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