It’s a good thing to be to be drawn to someone or in love but it’s something else letting the attraction you have on someone become an obsession. This happens more often than normal with many men, they get to the point of even being aware that they are played for a fool in a relationship but even upon knowing, — they still find it difficult to pull back due to the fear of their imagination about what the world would be like without a particular person in their lives. Most women pretends to be attracted to men who love in such way, including men who act foolishly just to keep them. In reality, they may remain in such relationship just in order to feed their ego and gain more manipulative power over their victims. They enjoy the attention they receive when placed on a pedestal and for further validation hunt, they often act unpredictable toward someone who shows obsession with them. In real life, women tend to chase men who aren’t completely focused on them, but rather on what they intend to achieve.They always want to compete to becoming the first priority, ahead of every other thing a man’s attention should be on. Could be his job, his family or his dreams. And this is the reason why they remain and stay committed to guys who dont usually take them seriously, the mindset of wanting to prove a point about being worthy or seen. A man could be wealthy and still be fooled around not because he isnt performing his duties as to meeting their demands but due to his inability to read signals based on how blinded he is by his feelings. A man who holds himself in high esteem can still be ahead of one, who sees his finances as a form of security to guarantee loyalty from his spouse.Even though a man is human and has emotions, he is still expected to learn how much of his heart he is, to invest in an uncommitted relationship, especially in a time like this when material things have become the bedrock of many relationships.Ladies pretends to be attracted to simps especially when they benefit from them in some ways. Deep down every woman needs a man emotionally matured, one with a shoulder she could lean on. A man’s validation shouldnt come from the woman he’s with, a man should be able to see himself beyond the level of significance his woman places on him. A man that relies on a woman to feel good about himself is close to setting himself up forheartbreak due to their imperfections as humans as well.A man should be determined to achieve and keep moving forward no matter the circumstance. Women finds it difficult to let go of men who are unafraid of leaving a relationship but most times when they finds out he is afraid, sometimes they becomes manipulative to find out how extra he could go just to satisfy her unending desires. More tips on building masculinity in men stay connected with us if you enjoyed this.
