Why you must avoid being quick to judge in different situations
In our world today, people can be too quick to ascribe a random definition to something they only understand on the surface but without depth. Which makes them come across as biased when they later realize the real truth about what they initially misconceived based on their level of understanding. one of the reason many people remain stagnant in life is due to how they degraded so many opportunities that came their way due to it’s outlook. The mentality with most of us is that we expect everything we look at to be exactly what it is and that can be very misleading because in reality it’s far from that. When people see a person that dresses simple and without all expensive jewelry worn they assume he’s broke meanwhile there are still a whole lot of people that loves to look rich even while they are unable to foot their own bills regularly. Many life changing opportunities have been neglected by people due to how they underestimated the worth, they focus on what seems to be appealing on the outside without proper consideration of how it may benefit them.
Growing up, we joke a lot about so many professions that we felt was undermining to be attributed to, due to what it looks like outwardly. Professions like mechanic, tailoring, shoe cobbler and so many other vocational skills that can bring financial freedom. Who wants to be seen in the dirt? I guess no one. The mindset so many people have about succes is to always be found in a sky scraper, putting on suit and heading to work daily with a brief case which is far from reality.
Many people who were able to gain financial freedom in the world today achived that by getting their hands on things that many would look down on if it were recommended to them as a provisional solution.
Was in a hospital sometime ago for a medical checkup and while i was waiting to see a doctor a person came and sat beside me, something very aweful began oozing that came from him which i was so uncomfortable with. What crossed my mind that moment was the thought that people really should start taking hygiene seriously, i judged by what i perceived. but the moment when he stoodup to get his injections i realized his legs had been badly burnt and he was taking treatments for that purpose. Really felt bad about the conclusion that came up in my mind earlier before realizing his state and all I could think afterwards was the pains he musg be going through.
God sees all these things I believe thats the reason he asked us not to judge.
One of the impacts of judging happens to be that it reduces a person’s way of thinking. When a person comes to conclusion without asking some very important questions it can reduce the need for curiosity but arriving at a sudden conclusion without more deeper research.
Let’s try to be considerate to one another and be aware that not everything is actually what it seems like on the surface.
