When people hear of attraction the first thing that comes to their mind is the appearance of a person, they think of the person’s complexion if light skinned, dark skinned and all of the other physical features a person can imagine but outside that there’s more to attraction than these features mentioned. Ones that happens to be untainted and doesn’t need to announce itself before getting noticed, people consider it to be described as aura, it’s the composure and conduct of a person, the way they carry themselves amongst others, not by constantly seeking for attention but gaining it with random moves. Some people consider those they perceive with such aura as proud due to their inability to match up the energy, their expectation is that everyone must be an attention seeker just like themselves in order to be noticed, but those with this form of attraction requires not much in terms of trying to look the best to be seen as such, in most cases they stay themselves and still come out with irresistible charm that not everyone understands. The major reason happens to be their level of unpredictability.
many at times when meeting a person for the first time people try to stereotype to figure out the kind kind of person it is they are dealing with
ladies expect that a guy meeting with them for the first time should find them attractive and react just like everyother guy will by trying to create an impression, paying the bills, pulling off the vibe of a simp, running after her for her contact, only to end up being turned down, in that way having her ego raised which gives her the feel good and him getting stuck with disappointment for taking such step, this is not to discourage people from being bold enough to make a move towards someone or something they find attractive but in order to look attractive u need to care less about what others thinks about you and just be yourself.
one of thing thing that makes a person attractive without the need for makeup or skin care is purpose. A person with purpose doesn’t need approval from anyone to feel good of themselves, people who are still stuck with seeking validation from others usually come off with the look of desperation even when sometimes they seem to possess natural admirable physical trait. Looking desperate isn’t cute, thats the reason why many men chase a particular lady for years with so many gifts and all but still get disappointed and turned down, sometimes used before realizing all effort has been wasted.
when a person’s mind is set on things that really matters they easily attract what others desperately chase after without stress and in the course of having your mind off those things, they present themselves freely due to how worthy it will feel of them being in your possession.
A skilled practitioner will always look attractive to an employer, so also will a composed individual look attractive to others
taking care of oneself is important but building internal resilience not to be too quick to react in every situation makes a person unique.
practice discipline, this is a form of attraction most people are yet to admit.
be different, be unique, be yourself
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